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just gonna say this: if someone has social anxiety and they ask you something akin to ‘are you mad at me’ or ‘do you hate me’, it isn’t because they don’t trust you, it’s because their brain literally tells them that all the time

it’s not a personal slight, it’s insecurity caused by mental illness

thanks


I can’t stress how important this knowledge is. Once I realised that I chose whether someone’s negative vibes affected me (hell, even my own negativity), I found that life is a lot easier.
I used to drown in negativity, in a downwards spiral until I didn’t see any light in life and I didn’t see the purpose of life anymore. My therapist then taught me this, and it changed my life completely.

I can’t stress how important this knowledge is. Once I realised that I chose whether someone’s negative vibes affected me (hell, even my own negativity), I found that life is a lot easier.

I used to drown in negativity, in a downwards spiral until I didn’t see any light in life and I didn’t see the purpose of life anymore. My therapist then taught me this, and it changed my life completely.

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"Look on my works, ye mighty, and despair!" 2D: Monotype and Relief #toledomuseumofart #nofilter

"Look on my works, ye mighty, and despair!" 2D: Monotype and Relief #toledomuseumofart #nofilter

Hangin’ with a dino. #stegosaurus #toledomuseumofart

Hangin’ with a dino. #stegosaurus #toledomuseumofart

Just dropped by Paris. Nbd. #toledomuseumofart

Just dropped by Paris. Nbd. #toledomuseumofart

Aug 19, 2014
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Toledo Zoo! #yak

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75¢ mug from good will. All I know about that mug is that it’s from McDonald’s & retro as fuck. Also, bonus sunset!

75¢ mug from good will. All I know about that mug is that it’s from McDonald’s & retro as fuck. Also, bonus sunset!

I love being horribly straightforward. I love sending reckless text messages (because how reckless can a form of digitized communication be?) and telling people I love them and telling people they are absolutely magical humans and I cannot believe they really exist. I love saying, Kiss me harder, and You’re a good person, and, You brighten my day. I live my life as straight-forward as possible.
Because one day, I might get hit by a bus.

Maybe it’s weird. Maybe it’s scary. Maybe it seems downright impossible to just be—to just let people know you want them, need them, feel like, in this very moment, you will die if you do not see them, hold them, touch them in some way whether its your feet on their thighs on the couch or your tongue in their mouth or your heart in their hands.

But there is nothing more beautiful than being desperate.

And there is nothing more risky than pretending not to care.

We are young and we are human and we are beautiful and we are not as in control as we think we are. We never know who needs us back. We never know the magic that can arise between ourselves and other humans.

We never know when the bus is coming.

— Lewis, Rachel C.. Tell The People You Love That You Love Them. (via wordsnquotes)

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